NOTHING!!!!
Isn’t that exciting! lol
Same stuff is still going on, but I will update ya all again!
~ My lawyer has drafted the final papers and is going to be sending them to Dave. We are filing on the grounds of mental cruelty since we haven’t been separated 6 months yet. She said that what he did is definitely grounds for mental cruelty.
~ Dave hasn’t paid me any child support since February 11th. My lawyer has sent him another order of withholding to his new job there at Long John Silvers. Since he is the general manager he is the one who got the order in the mail…. Boy was he pissed.
~ Carter is doing good! He is really getting excited about Kindergarten.
~ Dave is still saying he is wanting me back. However I know he is out on dating web sites looking for women. So he must not want me back that bad. lol
Well that is about it.
I hope everyone had a wonderful Easter.
Michelle
Thursday, March 27, 2008
Tuesday, February 26, 2008
Hello!!!
Well I am sorry it has been about a month since my last update. I know of I think 2 people who do read this blog. So here is your update on Carter, Me and my divorce.
Carter is doing alot better. He finally stopped pooping his pants. Thank goodness!!! It was getting very frustrating.
I am doing really well... I never thought I would get here or get to this place this fast. I still have bad days... and bad dreams. But, they are fewer and farther apart! I could even tell you the last time I cried over this situation. ;-)
Well Dave has gone from living in Taylorville, to living at Lisa's, to staying at a hotel, to know he has an apt in Springfield. He quit his job at Sutton's and him and Lisa were going to be over the road truck drivers for Schneider. Well that didn't work out. Dave finally realized Lisa was a crazy *&%$# and he left her and got what he could out of her house. He had to call the police cause she was acting crazy. I did help him get a hotel and allowed for Carter to stay with him there. Dave stayed at the hotel for about a week and then found an apt in Spfld. He got a job being a manager at Long John Silver, he has his own store in Decatur. He is still working part time at Sutton's... but hasn't gotten called for any hours yet.
It is so nice that Dave is seeing his children again. He has gotten Michael a few times, Tabitha doesn't want to come. He sees Carter quite a bit now!! I think that may have helped with our pooping in our pants situation.
Dave says that he has realized that he messed up... He says he now realizes how good he had it. He says he is going to win me back. He keeps asking me when I will move back in with him. I have told him that I have not gotten the trust back.... and not sure if I ever will. I told him that I am not saying that maybe sometime down the road... maybe years... maybe never... that I may be able to forgive him and get that trust back. But, right now I don't and can't. I will always love him, and always care very deeply about him, but I can not trust him with my heart again. He has broken my heart and my trust more then once and I don't think I will ever mend that trust or my broken heart. He betrayed me... he lied to me... over and over again.
We do talk everyday now and I hope and pray that he doesn't go back to Lisa. I know he will find someone and I hope he does, but I just pray it isn't Lisa.... she isn't good for him or for our son.
Oh... I almost forgot. Dave did talk to Lisa about a week or two ago to see if he could get the rest of his stuff. She said she burned it all. Nice huh.
Well that is about it...
Thank you for reading and please keep in touch.
Michelle
Carter is doing alot better. He finally stopped pooping his pants. Thank goodness!!! It was getting very frustrating.
I am doing really well... I never thought I would get here or get to this place this fast. I still have bad days... and bad dreams. But, they are fewer and farther apart! I could even tell you the last time I cried over this situation. ;-)
Well Dave has gone from living in Taylorville, to living at Lisa's, to staying at a hotel, to know he has an apt in Springfield. He quit his job at Sutton's and him and Lisa were going to be over the road truck drivers for Schneider. Well that didn't work out. Dave finally realized Lisa was a crazy *&%$# and he left her and got what he could out of her house. He had to call the police cause she was acting crazy. I did help him get a hotel and allowed for Carter to stay with him there. Dave stayed at the hotel for about a week and then found an apt in Spfld. He got a job being a manager at Long John Silver, he has his own store in Decatur. He is still working part time at Sutton's... but hasn't gotten called for any hours yet.
It is so nice that Dave is seeing his children again. He has gotten Michael a few times, Tabitha doesn't want to come. He sees Carter quite a bit now!! I think that may have helped with our pooping in our pants situation.
Dave says that he has realized that he messed up... He says he now realizes how good he had it. He says he is going to win me back. He keeps asking me when I will move back in with him. I have told him that I have not gotten the trust back.... and not sure if I ever will. I told him that I am not saying that maybe sometime down the road... maybe years... maybe never... that I may be able to forgive him and get that trust back. But, right now I don't and can't. I will always love him, and always care very deeply about him, but I can not trust him with my heart again. He has broken my heart and my trust more then once and I don't think I will ever mend that trust or my broken heart. He betrayed me... he lied to me... over and over again.
We do talk everyday now and I hope and pray that he doesn't go back to Lisa. I know he will find someone and I hope he does, but I just pray it isn't Lisa.... she isn't good for him or for our son.
Oh... I almost forgot. Dave did talk to Lisa about a week or two ago to see if he could get the rest of his stuff. She said she burned it all. Nice huh.
Well that is about it...
Thank you for reading and please keep in touch.
Michelle
Monday, January 28, 2008
update
Okay I have been really busy so I have just copied and pasted what I keep in my divorce calendar on here.
Carter and I did fly out to Atlanta to see my best friend and her kids and husband last week. It was really nice. I needed the little get away.
So here is the latest in my divorce....
Smith vs Smith
1Tue
Dave called and wanted Carter and I to come over for dinner. I needed to have him sign a check so we drove to Taylorville for dinner. We had dinner and were just sitting around enjoying the time together. Lisa called three times. Dave was talking to her and telling her I was outside with the dog when I was actually sitting on the couch. She was wanting to come over. She told him that we (Carter and I) needed to get out of thier house. I could tell Dave wanted us to leave so Carter and I left. Dave said he didn't think she was going to come over. Well as I was leaving she drove past me. So I turned around and pulled back into his driveway behind her. I asked her what she had to say. She said nothing. I said so everything I told CJ was a lie and she said no. I said so everything you told CJ was a lie and she said yes... they have been dating. I said you told me your brother was a minister and what Dave was doing was adultry and wrong. I said so what you are doing isn't adultry and wrong. She said well you guys are getting a divorce. I called her a few expicit names and was walking away when Carter got out of the van. I said look who is at Daddy's house. Carter said hi to his teacher and we left.
2Wed
Lisa didn't show up for work at Pleasant Run... supposedly quit or got fired.
Dave's 24 hour shift at Suttons.
3Thu
Dave did not get Carter. Dave moved Lisa into his house.
4Fri
Dave called at 8:39 to tell Carter good night.
5Sat
Dave called at 9:40 to tell Carter good night.
Dave's 24 hour shift at Suttons.
6Sun
Dave called at 9:12 to tell Carter good night.
Dave did not get Carter.
7Mon
Dave called at 9:24 to tell Carter good night.
Court to set Child support. Dave told Judge that he couldn't afford child support amount that my lawyer wanted. Then told Judge that he has a problem with visitation. He said since I caused his girlfriend to loose her job that they now have to move in together to make ends meet. So our agreement of him not bringing our son around any of his girlfriends till they were together for at least 6 months wasn't working. No child support or visitation was set up.
8Tue
Dave called at 9:01 to tell Carter good night.
Dave's 24 hour shift at Suttons.
9Wed
Dave called at 9:23 to tell Carter good night.
Dave did not get Carter.
10Thu
Dave did not call and tell Carter good night.I took Carter to see a counselor Dr. Appleton.
11Fri
Dave called at 9:12 and told Carter good night.
Dave's 24 hour shift at Suttons.
12Sat
Dave was moving back to Springfield and in with Lisa. Won't give me the address. Dave did not get Carter. Dave called at 9:45 to tell Carter good night and Carter was already asleep.
13Sun
Dave called at 9:25 and told Carter good night.
14Mon
Dave 24 hours shift at Suttons.
7:36 pm Dave sent me the following text message.Can u watch Nitro 4 a few days so I can find him a new place8:04 pm I sent him the following text messageAfter serious consideration I have to say no. It would be to hard on Carter and myself to get attached to ol Nitro buddy again. Animal protective league will take him back if u can’t find a good owner. I had Carter call Dave at 8:44 pm to tell him good night cause I was getting ready to get in the shower and didn’t want Carter to miss his phone call while I was in the shower. Dave said he wanted to take Carter to McDonalds either Tuesday or Wednesday. I said well just let me know. Then I sent him the following text message at 8:54 pmMichelle ~ Will you be taking him to dinner by yourself?Dave ~ Have no ideaMichelle ~ Did you get my email about what his counselor saidDave ~ yepMichelle ~ Okay as long as you are aware and know what is in the best interest of our son.Dave ~ I have no idea what u just saidMichelle ~ As long as you know that the counselor does not think it is a good idea for Carter to be around Lisa. That it would be in the best interest of our son if you did not bring her around him.
15Tue
Dave did not get Carter. Dave called at 9:01 to tell him good night.Found out I am getting $85 a week for child support. That covers half of daycare and then doesn't even cover all of dave's insurance premium that I am paying for him. I still pay part of Dave's and all of Carter's ins prem plus any expenses to raise, clothe, and feed Carter.
16Wed
I took Carter to Memorial’s Urgent Care because he was complaining of a sore throat. Dave had said that he wanted to get Carter either Tuesday or Wednesday and he didn’t get him Tuesday night so I sent him a text message that said I had Carter at the dr. cause I thought he had strep throat. I got no response back from him. Dave called at 8:30 pm to tell Carter good night. I informed him that Carter did have strep throat.
17Thu
Dave called at 10:15 am and wanted to know when we were leaving for Atlanta. He wanted us to call when we got to the Bloomington airport. We called Dave at 1:23 from the airport. Dave called at 9:54 pm to tell Carter good night.Dave’s 24 hour shift at Sutton’s
18Fri
Dave called to tell Carter goodnight at 9:48 pm
19Sat
Dave called to tell Carter goodnight at 10:11 pm
20Sun
I got the following text at 5:30 in the morning in Atlanta from Dave. “Please take me back”I did not respond to it. Dave then called me at 9:38 am and I missed the call. I called him back at 9:50 am. He said he was at Quick N Ez reading the newspaper trying to find a place to stay. He said he and Lisa were over. He said she wouldn’t take him to work so he had to call in sick. He called me a couple different times during the day crying. One of the times he said he had to call the Sangamon county Sheriff’s dept out to her house cause she was hitting him and throwing stuff at him when he was there trying to pick up some clothes. He also called and said one time that he was driving around SJH thinking about going in and committing himself cause he felt like killing himself. We called Dave at 9:13 pm to tell him good night and he didn’t answer his phone. He called us back at 9:16 pm to say goodnight. He sounded totally different then he did earlier. I asked him if he was back with Lisa and he didn’t answer me. I asked again and he hung up on me.
21Mon
Dave called at 10:18 pm to tell Carter goodnight.
22Tue
No phone call at all.
23Wed
Talked to Dave a couple times… I went to Taylorville with my mom and Carter to pick up some stuff from Dave’s old house he lived in and didn’t take with him when he moved into Lisa’s. I was going to take Carter by to see him, but he said he was busy at work.Dave’s 24 hr shift at Sutton’sDave said he is applying to work at Schnieders.
24Thu
Lisa picked Dave up from work. Dave called me at 3:25 and wanted to know if I would meet him at McDonalds in Capital City so he could see Carter. I said fine. I met him there and bought him and Carter dinner. Dave told me that Lisa was going to go with him to WI and was applying at Schnieder too so that they could work together as a team. He says it is all part of his plan to get his stuff out of her house and he said that she won’t last being a truck driver. He said he wants me to go on one of his trips with him. Dave told Carter he would call him and tell him good night. I asked him if he was going to stay at Lisa’s or at Pioneer motel? He said he didn’t know. I didn’t understand why if he paid $150 to stay at a hotel and said he was done with lisa why he was still staying there.Dave did NOT call Carter and tell him good night.
25Fri
Dave called at 9:22 to tell Carter goodnight. Dave told me to call him on Saturday, but after 7 am so that Lisa wouldn't know I was calling.
26Sat
Dave's 24 hr shift at Suttons
Dave wanted me to call hotels to see what the weekly rates were. I didn't even ask him why. I just figured that him and lisa were fighting again.Dave called at 9:05 to tell Carter good night.
27Sun
Dave called at 9:17 to tell Carter goodnight.
Carter and I did fly out to Atlanta to see my best friend and her kids and husband last week. It was really nice. I needed the little get away.
So here is the latest in my divorce....
Smith vs Smith
1Tue
Dave called and wanted Carter and I to come over for dinner. I needed to have him sign a check so we drove to Taylorville for dinner. We had dinner and were just sitting around enjoying the time together. Lisa called three times. Dave was talking to her and telling her I was outside with the dog when I was actually sitting on the couch. She was wanting to come over. She told him that we (Carter and I) needed to get out of thier house. I could tell Dave wanted us to leave so Carter and I left. Dave said he didn't think she was going to come over. Well as I was leaving she drove past me. So I turned around and pulled back into his driveway behind her. I asked her what she had to say. She said nothing. I said so everything I told CJ was a lie and she said no. I said so everything you told CJ was a lie and she said yes... they have been dating. I said you told me your brother was a minister and what Dave was doing was adultry and wrong. I said so what you are doing isn't adultry and wrong. She said well you guys are getting a divorce. I called her a few expicit names and was walking away when Carter got out of the van. I said look who is at Daddy's house. Carter said hi to his teacher and we left.
2Wed
Lisa didn't show up for work at Pleasant Run... supposedly quit or got fired.
Dave's 24 hour shift at Suttons.
3Thu
Dave did not get Carter. Dave moved Lisa into his house.
4Fri
Dave called at 8:39 to tell Carter good night.
5Sat
Dave called at 9:40 to tell Carter good night.
Dave's 24 hour shift at Suttons.
6Sun
Dave called at 9:12 to tell Carter good night.
Dave did not get Carter.
7Mon
Dave called at 9:24 to tell Carter good night.
Court to set Child support. Dave told Judge that he couldn't afford child support amount that my lawyer wanted. Then told Judge that he has a problem with visitation. He said since I caused his girlfriend to loose her job that they now have to move in together to make ends meet. So our agreement of him not bringing our son around any of his girlfriends till they were together for at least 6 months wasn't working. No child support or visitation was set up.
8Tue
Dave called at 9:01 to tell Carter good night.
Dave's 24 hour shift at Suttons.
9Wed
Dave called at 9:23 to tell Carter good night.
Dave did not get Carter.
10Thu
Dave did not call and tell Carter good night.I took Carter to see a counselor Dr. Appleton.
11Fri
Dave called at 9:12 and told Carter good night.
Dave's 24 hour shift at Suttons.
12Sat
Dave was moving back to Springfield and in with Lisa. Won't give me the address. Dave did not get Carter. Dave called at 9:45 to tell Carter good night and Carter was already asleep.
13Sun
Dave called at 9:25 and told Carter good night.
14Mon
Dave 24 hours shift at Suttons.
7:36 pm Dave sent me the following text message.Can u watch Nitro 4 a few days so I can find him a new place8:04 pm I sent him the following text messageAfter serious consideration I have to say no. It would be to hard on Carter and myself to get attached to ol Nitro buddy again. Animal protective league will take him back if u can’t find a good owner. I had Carter call Dave at 8:44 pm to tell him good night cause I was getting ready to get in the shower and didn’t want Carter to miss his phone call while I was in the shower. Dave said he wanted to take Carter to McDonalds either Tuesday or Wednesday. I said well just let me know. Then I sent him the following text message at 8:54 pmMichelle ~ Will you be taking him to dinner by yourself?Dave ~ Have no ideaMichelle ~ Did you get my email about what his counselor saidDave ~ yepMichelle ~ Okay as long as you are aware and know what is in the best interest of our son.Dave ~ I have no idea what u just saidMichelle ~ As long as you know that the counselor does not think it is a good idea for Carter to be around Lisa. That it would be in the best interest of our son if you did not bring her around him.
15Tue
Dave did not get Carter. Dave called at 9:01 to tell him good night.Found out I am getting $85 a week for child support. That covers half of daycare and then doesn't even cover all of dave's insurance premium that I am paying for him. I still pay part of Dave's and all of Carter's ins prem plus any expenses to raise, clothe, and feed Carter.
16Wed
I took Carter to Memorial’s Urgent Care because he was complaining of a sore throat. Dave had said that he wanted to get Carter either Tuesday or Wednesday and he didn’t get him Tuesday night so I sent him a text message that said I had Carter at the dr. cause I thought he had strep throat. I got no response back from him. Dave called at 8:30 pm to tell Carter good night. I informed him that Carter did have strep throat.
17Thu
Dave called at 10:15 am and wanted to know when we were leaving for Atlanta. He wanted us to call when we got to the Bloomington airport. We called Dave at 1:23 from the airport. Dave called at 9:54 pm to tell Carter good night.Dave’s 24 hour shift at Sutton’s
18Fri
Dave called to tell Carter goodnight at 9:48 pm
19Sat
Dave called to tell Carter goodnight at 10:11 pm
20Sun
I got the following text at 5:30 in the morning in Atlanta from Dave. “Please take me back”I did not respond to it. Dave then called me at 9:38 am and I missed the call. I called him back at 9:50 am. He said he was at Quick N Ez reading the newspaper trying to find a place to stay. He said he and Lisa were over. He said she wouldn’t take him to work so he had to call in sick. He called me a couple different times during the day crying. One of the times he said he had to call the Sangamon county Sheriff’s dept out to her house cause she was hitting him and throwing stuff at him when he was there trying to pick up some clothes. He also called and said one time that he was driving around SJH thinking about going in and committing himself cause he felt like killing himself. We called Dave at 9:13 pm to tell him good night and he didn’t answer his phone. He called us back at 9:16 pm to say goodnight. He sounded totally different then he did earlier. I asked him if he was back with Lisa and he didn’t answer me. I asked again and he hung up on me.
21Mon
Dave called at 10:18 pm to tell Carter goodnight.
22Tue
No phone call at all.
23Wed
Talked to Dave a couple times… I went to Taylorville with my mom and Carter to pick up some stuff from Dave’s old house he lived in and didn’t take with him when he moved into Lisa’s. I was going to take Carter by to see him, but he said he was busy at work.Dave’s 24 hr shift at Sutton’sDave said he is applying to work at Schnieders.
24Thu
Lisa picked Dave up from work. Dave called me at 3:25 and wanted to know if I would meet him at McDonalds in Capital City so he could see Carter. I said fine. I met him there and bought him and Carter dinner. Dave told me that Lisa was going to go with him to WI and was applying at Schnieder too so that they could work together as a team. He says it is all part of his plan to get his stuff out of her house and he said that she won’t last being a truck driver. He said he wants me to go on one of his trips with him. Dave told Carter he would call him and tell him good night. I asked him if he was going to stay at Lisa’s or at Pioneer motel? He said he didn’t know. I didn’t understand why if he paid $150 to stay at a hotel and said he was done with lisa why he was still staying there.Dave did NOT call Carter and tell him good night.
25Fri
Dave called at 9:22 to tell Carter goodnight. Dave told me to call him on Saturday, but after 7 am so that Lisa wouldn't know I was calling.
26Sat
Dave's 24 hr shift at Suttons
Dave wanted me to call hotels to see what the weekly rates were. I didn't even ask him why. I just figured that him and lisa were fighting again.Dave called at 9:05 to tell Carter good night.
27Sun
Dave called at 9:17 to tell Carter goodnight.
Tuesday, January 15, 2008
Child Support
Okay so I found out today that I get $85 a week for child support.
Daycare alone is $140 a week. $70 for each of us.
Dave's Insurance premium that I am paying is $16.69 a week.
So basically I am getting half of daycare paid for and then not even all of Dave's insurance premium. Yes I have checked into dropping him from my insurance, but my company does not allow you to drop or change your insurance unless there is a life changing event. Divorce is one, but the divorce has to be final in order to get the insurance changed.
So now I am paying for part of Dave's premium.... all of Carter.... and everything else it costs me to raise our son.
He wins once again.
I hate this.
Daycare alone is $140 a week. $70 for each of us.
Dave's Insurance premium that I am paying is $16.69 a week.
So basically I am getting half of daycare paid for and then not even all of Dave's insurance premium. Yes I have checked into dropping him from my insurance, but my company does not allow you to drop or change your insurance unless there is a life changing event. Divorce is one, but the divorce has to be final in order to get the insurance changed.
So now I am paying for part of Dave's premium.... all of Carter.... and everything else it costs me to raise our son.
He wins once again.
I hate this.
He may see his son for the first time in 2 weeks.
Okay here is what happened last night. He wants me to take Nitro our dog cause he just moved in with his girlfriend and she can't have pets at her place.
7:36 pm Dave sent me the following text message.
Can u watch Nitro 4 a few days so I can find him a new place
8:04 pm I sent him the following text message
After serious consideration I have to say no. It would be to hard on Carter and myself to get attached to ol Nitro buddy again. Animal protective league will take him back if u can’t find a good owner.
I had Carter call Dave at 8:44 pm to tell him good night cause I was getting ready to get in the shower and didn’t want Carter to miss his phone call while I was in the shower. Dave said he wanted to take Carter to McDonalds either Tuesday or Wednesday. I said well just let me know.
Then I sent him the following text message at 8:54 pm
Michelle ~ Will you be taking him to dinner by yourself?
Dave ~ Have no idea
Michelle ~ Did you get my email about what his counselor said
Dave ~ yep
Michelle ~ Okay as long as you are aware and know what is in the best interest of our son.
Dave ~ I have no idea what u just said
Michelle ~ As long as you know that the counselor does not think it is a good idea for Carter to be around Lisa. That it would be in the best interest of our son if you did not bring her around him.
Now I didn't get any response back from that last text message.
Dave has not seen Carter since January 1st when I took Carter over to his house for about an hour. So, I hope that he does get him for dinner, but I also hope that he doesn't bring his girlfriend.
7:36 pm Dave sent me the following text message.
Can u watch Nitro 4 a few days so I can find him a new place
8:04 pm I sent him the following text message
After serious consideration I have to say no. It would be to hard on Carter and myself to get attached to ol Nitro buddy again. Animal protective league will take him back if u can’t find a good owner.
I had Carter call Dave at 8:44 pm to tell him good night cause I was getting ready to get in the shower and didn’t want Carter to miss his phone call while I was in the shower. Dave said he wanted to take Carter to McDonalds either Tuesday or Wednesday. I said well just let me know.
Then I sent him the following text message at 8:54 pm
Michelle ~ Will you be taking him to dinner by yourself?
Dave ~ Have no idea
Michelle ~ Did you get my email about what his counselor said
Dave ~ yep
Michelle ~ Okay as long as you are aware and know what is in the best interest of our son.
Dave ~ I have no idea what u just said
Michelle ~ As long as you know that the counselor does not think it is a good idea for Carter to be around Lisa. That it would be in the best interest of our son if you did not bring her around him.
Now I didn't get any response back from that last text message.
Dave has not seen Carter since January 1st when I took Carter over to his house for about an hour. So, I hope that he does get him for dinner, but I also hope that he doesn't bring his girlfriend.
Monday, January 14, 2008
ALONE...
The past two nights I have been dreaming about Dave and being back together with him. I do miss him. But, I could never go back to him after all the infidelity ~ Adultery that has gone on with him.
I am so tired of being alone. It is lonely and sad. I sit and I think about how he is now living with his girlfriend. How happy they are and how much fun they must be having.... how she is now living what should be my life. IT SUCKS. I HATE IT.
Oh how I wish Dave would have taken our wedding vows seriously like I did. Why did he have to venture out.... he said he didn't feel that he was my number 1. Him and Carter were my life.
I want to be happy again. I want a family again. All of this just isn't fair. Why does he keep winning and getting everything he wants.
I need to get away.....
I am so tired of being alone. It is lonely and sad. I sit and I think about how he is now living with his girlfriend. How happy they are and how much fun they must be having.... how she is now living what should be my life. IT SUCKS. I HATE IT.
Oh how I wish Dave would have taken our wedding vows seriously like I did. Why did he have to venture out.... he said he didn't feel that he was my number 1. Him and Carter were my life.
I want to be happy again. I want a family again. All of this just isn't fair. Why does he keep winning and getting everything he wants.
I need to get away.....
Thursday, January 10, 2008
UGH.....
Okay I have decided that I need to take Carter to see a counselor. He had been potty trained since he was 2. Now he is pooping his pants a couple times a day since this separation/divorce has started. He still tells me that he wants mommy and daddy to love back to each other. He is acting out at home. So I have made an appointment to take him to see a counselor. Our appt is today. I hope she is able to help him and help me explain things to him.
So I knew that I had to tell Dave that I was taking him to see a counselor. I didn’t want to call and talk to him so I sent him a text message. Here are the corresponding text messages from yesterday.
Michelle ~ Just wanted you to know I am taking Carter to a counselor tomorrow.
Dave ~ Y
Michelle ~ He is still having a hard time adjusting. He is still pooping his pants. He even did it at your house when you had him and Mike, but he said he just pulled up his pants cause he was scared to tell you. He still doesn’t get why we are not together or getting back together and now you are living with his old daycare teacher.
Dave ~ He seems happy, maybe it is U
Michelle ~ I have not told him about you and Lisa yet. It was suggested to me to take him by his daycare. He still tells me he wants us to love back to each other. This can only help him.
Dave ~ I will help what I can
He thinks he knows what is going on with our son. Since we have been separated on November 5th he has only had Carter overnight 5 times, and only one of those was for more then 24 hours and that is cause I was working a 24 hour shift. The other times he has gotten him it was to take him bowling and then I would pick him up from the bowling alley when I got off work at 3:30. So he would only have him about 1.5 hours. Another time he picked him up and just to him to McDonalds to eat and brought him back.
Of course Carter seems happy when he is with Dave. Cause either he is taking him to do something fun, or if he is staying the night Michael is there to play with him. Oh and he hasn’t gotten his daughter since we were together and last got both Michael and Tabitha in October.
So I knew that I had to tell Dave that I was taking him to see a counselor. I didn’t want to call and talk to him so I sent him a text message. Here are the corresponding text messages from yesterday.
Michelle ~ Just wanted you to know I am taking Carter to a counselor tomorrow.
Dave ~ Y
Michelle ~ He is still having a hard time adjusting. He is still pooping his pants. He even did it at your house when you had him and Mike, but he said he just pulled up his pants cause he was scared to tell you. He still doesn’t get why we are not together or getting back together and now you are living with his old daycare teacher.
Dave ~ He seems happy, maybe it is U
Michelle ~ I have not told him about you and Lisa yet. It was suggested to me to take him by his daycare. He still tells me he wants us to love back to each other. This can only help him.
Dave ~ I will help what I can
He thinks he knows what is going on with our son. Since we have been separated on November 5th he has only had Carter overnight 5 times, and only one of those was for more then 24 hours and that is cause I was working a 24 hour shift. The other times he has gotten him it was to take him bowling and then I would pick him up from the bowling alley when I got off work at 3:30. So he would only have him about 1.5 hours. Another time he picked him up and just to him to McDonalds to eat and brought him back.
Of course Carter seems happy when he is with Dave. Cause either he is taking him to do something fun, or if he is staying the night Michael is there to play with him. Oh and he hasn’t gotten his daughter since we were together and last got both Michael and Tabitha in October.
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